* You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time. -- Charles F. Kettering
* There are two kinds of people in the world: those who make excuses and those who get results. An excuse person will find any excuse for why a job was not done,
and a results person will find any reason why it can be done. Be a creator, not a reactor. -- Alan Cohen, A Deep Breath Of Life
* Cherish your visions; cherish your ideals; cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built.." -- James Allen, 1864-1912, British-born American Essayist, Author of "As a Man Thinketh"
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The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn. -- Alvin Toffler
* What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. -- Ralph Waldo Emerson
* The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails. (author unknown)
* A great many people think they are thinking when they are merely rearranging their prejudices. -- William James
* In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on. -- Robert Frost
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Rules of Life
1. Marry the right person . This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationship with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even it it means you'll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationship with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even it it means you'll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
Life
Happiness keeps u Sweet, Trials keep u Strong,
Sorrow keeps u Human,
Failure Keeps u Humble and
Success keeps u glowing, but only Faith Keeps u Going..
Sorrow keeps u Human,
Failure Keeps u Humble and
Success keeps u glowing, but only Faith Keeps u Going..
Tips you should remember always
1) Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2) Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3) Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4) When you say, "I love you," mean it.
5) When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
6) Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7) Believe in love at first! sight.
8) Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
9) Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
10) In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11) Don't judge people by their relatives.
12) Talk slowly but think quickly.
13) When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14) Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15) Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
16) When you lose, don't lose the lesson
17) Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
18) Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19) When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20) Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21) Spend some time alone.
2) Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3) Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4) When you say, "I love you," mean it.
5) When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
6) Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7) Believe in love at first! sight.
8) Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
9) Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
10) In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11) Don't judge people by their relatives.
12) Talk slowly but think quickly.
13) When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14) Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15) Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
16) When you lose, don't lose the lesson
17) Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
18) Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19) When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20) Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21) Spend some time alone.
Remember this always in life
Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones."
Remember this always in life.
Remember this always in life.
Quotes by Swami Vivekananda
1. Choose the highest ideal and live your life upto that. Look at the "ocean" and not at the wave.
2. That which tends to increase the divinity in you is virtue, and that which tends to increase brutality in you is vice.
3. He who sees Shiva in the poor, in the weak, and in the diseased, really worships Shiva.
4. Purity in thought, speech, and act is absolutely necessary for anyone to be religious. Purity is strength. Spiritual truth is purity.
5. The ideal of the man is to see God in everything. The real evil is idleness which is the principal cause of our poverty.
6. Everyone should know that there is no salvation except through the conquering of desires.
7. Death being so certain, it is better to die for a good cause.
8. Religion is the manifestation of the Divinity already in man.
9. Your country reqires heroes, be heroes!
10. To me the very essence of education is concentration of the mind, not the collecting of facts.
11. Each soul is potentially divine.
12. Religion is the idea which is raising the brute unto man, and man unto God.
13. All power is within you; you can do anything and everything. Believe in that.
14. Work, work, work - let this be your motto.
15. Now the only way out is to listen to the words of the Lord in the Gita.
16. Be a hero. Always say, "I have no fear".
17. Struggle hard to get money, but don't get attached to it.
18. Feel that you are great and you become great.
19. To devote your life to the good of all and to the happiness of all is religion. Whatever you do for your own sake is not religion.
20. At my will mountains will crumble up. Have that sort of energy, that sort of will; work hard, and you will reach the goal.
21. It is those foolish people who identify themselves with their bodies that piteously cry, 'Weak, weak, we are weak'.
22. Keep the motto before you: "Elevation of the masses without injuring their religion".
23. Man never progresses from error to truth, but from truth to truth, from lesser truth to higher truth.
24. Avoid all weakness, for weakness is sin, weakness is death.
25. Never talk about the faults of others, no matter how bad they may be. Nothing is ever gained by that.
26. I shall inspire men everywhere until the world shall know that it is one with God.
27. Let us go forward and do yet greater things.
28. The more selfish a man, the more immoral he is.
29. Give to the weak, for there all the gift is needed.
30. Knowledge exists, man only discovers it.
31. Give up all desire for enjoyment in earth or heaven.
32. Be courageous. Do not try to lead your brethren, but serve them.
33. Be the witness and do not react, only thus can you be happy.
34. None can help you, help yourself; work out your own salvation.
35. Be not afraid of anything. You will do marvellous work.
36. Try to love anybody and everybody.
37. You have to gwo from the inside out. None can teach you, non can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.
38. Know it for certain that you are in everything.
39. Go on bravely. Do not expect success in a day or a year.
40. Let all your nerves vibrate through the backbone of your religion.
41. Do not talk much, but feel the spirit within you.
42. If you want to be spiritual, you must renounce.
43. Your way is the best for you, but that is no sign that it is the best for others.
44. Renounce the lower so that you may get the higher.
45. Where can we go to find God if we cannot see Him in our own hearts and in every living being?
46. Your work is to serve the poor and miserable, without distinction of caste or colour.
47. Help another because yu are in him and he is in you.
48. The poor, the illiterate, the ignorant, the afflicted,...let these be your God. Know that service to these alone is the highest religion.
49. If I am in the dark, let me light a lamp.
50. The earth's bravest and best will have to sacrifice themselves for the good of many, for the welfare of all.
51. Every duty is holy, and devotion to duty is the highest form of worship of God.
52. We only get what we deserve. It is a lie when we say, the world is bad and we are good. It can never be so.
53. You will understand the mighty strength of Krishna better with a little of strong blood in you.
54. It is struggle against nature and not conformity to nature that makes man what he is.
55. Each work has to pass through these stages - ridicule, opposition and then acceptance.
56. First there should be strict integrity...Secondly, entire devotion to the cause
57. The will is not free - it is a phenomenon bound by cause and effect - but there is something behind the will which is free.
58. You fail only when you do not strive sufficiently to manifest infinite power.
59. Whatever you do, devote your whole Mind, Heart, and Soul to it.
60. Whatever you think, that you will be. If you think yourselves weak, weak you will be; if you think yourselves strong, strong you will be.
61. Never mind failures; they are quite natural, they are the beauty of life - these failures.
62. He works best who works without any motive, neither for money, nor for fame, nor for anything else.
63. The new religion says that he is an atheist who does not believe in himself.
64. Neither seek nor avoid, take what comes.
65. You should work like a master and not as a slave; work incessantly, but do not do a slave's work
66. Believe that the soul is immortal, infinite and all powerful.
67. Even if the order be wrong, first obey and then contradict it.
68. Be a hero. Always say, "I have no fear".
69. Our first duty is not to hate ourselves; because to advance we must have faith in ourselves first and then in God.
2. That which tends to increase the divinity in you is virtue, and that which tends to increase brutality in you is vice.
3. He who sees Shiva in the poor, in the weak, and in the diseased, really worships Shiva.
4. Purity in thought, speech, and act is absolutely necessary for anyone to be religious. Purity is strength. Spiritual truth is purity.
5. The ideal of the man is to see God in everything. The real evil is idleness which is the principal cause of our poverty.
6. Everyone should know that there is no salvation except through the conquering of desires.
7. Death being so certain, it is better to die for a good cause.
8. Religion is the manifestation of the Divinity already in man.
9. Your country reqires heroes, be heroes!
10. To me the very essence of education is concentration of the mind, not the collecting of facts.
11. Each soul is potentially divine.
12. Religion is the idea which is raising the brute unto man, and man unto God.
13. All power is within you; you can do anything and everything. Believe in that.
14. Work, work, work - let this be your motto.
15. Now the only way out is to listen to the words of the Lord in the Gita.
16. Be a hero. Always say, "I have no fear".
17. Struggle hard to get money, but don't get attached to it.
18. Feel that you are great and you become great.
19. To devote your life to the good of all and to the happiness of all is religion. Whatever you do for your own sake is not religion.
20. At my will mountains will crumble up. Have that sort of energy, that sort of will; work hard, and you will reach the goal.
21. It is those foolish people who identify themselves with their bodies that piteously cry, 'Weak, weak, we are weak'.
22. Keep the motto before you: "Elevation of the masses without injuring their religion".
23. Man never progresses from error to truth, but from truth to truth, from lesser truth to higher truth.
24. Avoid all weakness, for weakness is sin, weakness is death.
25. Never talk about the faults of others, no matter how bad they may be. Nothing is ever gained by that.
26. I shall inspire men everywhere until the world shall know that it is one with God.
27. Let us go forward and do yet greater things.
28. The more selfish a man, the more immoral he is.
29. Give to the weak, for there all the gift is needed.
30. Knowledge exists, man only discovers it.
31. Give up all desire for enjoyment in earth or heaven.
32. Be courageous. Do not try to lead your brethren, but serve them.
33. Be the witness and do not react, only thus can you be happy.
34. None can help you, help yourself; work out your own salvation.
35. Be not afraid of anything. You will do marvellous work.
36. Try to love anybody and everybody.
37. You have to gwo from the inside out. None can teach you, non can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.
38. Know it for certain that you are in everything.
39. Go on bravely. Do not expect success in a day or a year.
40. Let all your nerves vibrate through the backbone of your religion.
41. Do not talk much, but feel the spirit within you.
42. If you want to be spiritual, you must renounce.
43. Your way is the best for you, but that is no sign that it is the best for others.
44. Renounce the lower so that you may get the higher.
45. Where can we go to find God if we cannot see Him in our own hearts and in every living being?
46. Your work is to serve the poor and miserable, without distinction of caste or colour.
47. Help another because yu are in him and he is in you.
48. The poor, the illiterate, the ignorant, the afflicted,...let these be your God. Know that service to these alone is the highest religion.
49. If I am in the dark, let me light a lamp.
50. The earth's bravest and best will have to sacrifice themselves for the good of many, for the welfare of all.
51. Every duty is holy, and devotion to duty is the highest form of worship of God.
52. We only get what we deserve. It is a lie when we say, the world is bad and we are good. It can never be so.
53. You will understand the mighty strength of Krishna better with a little of strong blood in you.
54. It is struggle against nature and not conformity to nature that makes man what he is.
55. Each work has to pass through these stages - ridicule, opposition and then acceptance.
56. First there should be strict integrity...Secondly, entire devotion to the cause
57. The will is not free - it is a phenomenon bound by cause and effect - but there is something behind the will which is free.
58. You fail only when you do not strive sufficiently to manifest infinite power.
59. Whatever you do, devote your whole Mind, Heart, and Soul to it.
60. Whatever you think, that you will be. If you think yourselves weak, weak you will be; if you think yourselves strong, strong you will be.
61. Never mind failures; they are quite natural, they are the beauty of life - these failures.
62. He works best who works without any motive, neither for money, nor for fame, nor for anything else.
63. The new religion says that he is an atheist who does not believe in himself.
64. Neither seek nor avoid, take what comes.
65. You should work like a master and not as a slave; work incessantly, but do not do a slave's work
66. Believe that the soul is immortal, infinite and all powerful.
67. Even if the order be wrong, first obey and then contradict it.
68. Be a hero. Always say, "I have no fear".
69. Our first duty is not to hate ourselves; because to advance we must have faith in ourselves first and then in God.
How To Stay Young and Happy
How To Stay Young and Happy
1. Throw out nonessential numbers.
This includes age, weight, and height.
Let the doctors worry about them.. That is why you pay them.
2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down.
(Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)
3. Keep learning:
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.
Never let the brain get idle.
"An idle mind is the devil's workshop."
And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!
4. Enjoy the simple things
5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with him or her!
6. The tears happen:
Endure, grieve, and move on.
The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourself.
LIVE while you are alive.
7 Surround yourself with what you love:
Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever.
Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health:
If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, even to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
And if you don't send this to at least four people - who cares?
But do share this with someone.
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